Bad is Good and Good is Bad?

Women desire both the Nice Guy and the Bad Boy in the same package.  Many men scratch their heads and don’t understand how they can want both a bad and a good guy.  Think of it as a Volkswagen Golf with a Ferrari Engine in it – practical, roomy and reliable but can send the adrenaline racing in less than 6 seconds. 

The important thing to know is that they are looking for the Bad Boy only in the physical realm or those areas of their psyche that stimulate the physical.  They want the Bad Boy in a sexual context, because this guy turns them on – the outlaw, the rebel, and the guy who doesn’t follow the rules and does things his own way.  Someone who presents an element of danger and risk that is many times thrilling to a woman.  However, bringing this mythic figure into the reality of dating is challenging, to say the least. 

Women don’t really want a dangerous guy in their lives, since physical safety is at the top of a woman’s priority list.  Misbehaving Bad Boys that do not pick up the phone and call or display any other actions that show that a woman is valued and desired will always lead to misery. 

It is very important to know the difference between a Bad Boy and a Good Bad Boy.  One will always by adored by women and the other will always cause heartbreak to them.  Its obvious which one you want to be.