Sunday, March 23, 2014

Pushing the Envelope

The only limitations are the ones that you put there, and if you both are adventuresome and playful, then let your minds roam and explore.  All your practice at communication comes to fruition here, as discussions venture into the ‘what turns you on’ and ‘what fantasies do you have’ conversations.  Of course you are matter of fact and unflappable regardless of what she says, assuming there is nothing illegal desired. I once had a woman ask me why I hadn’t robbed a convenience store so she could fall in love with me.  She may have been kidding but it didn’t seem it at the time.  Needless to say, that situation didn’t get very far.  As a Good Bad Boy I’m very accommodating, however, there are some boundaries that just won’t be compromised.   
Don’t be afraid to push the envelope, and many times being spontaneous really helps.   You must become aware of the power of spontaneity romantically – bringing flowers or gifts, planning a special day for your girl and springing it on her, and so on.  Sexual spontaneity has its own powerful space as well.  You’ve established a safe place between you and your partner so don’t be afraid to try new ideas.  Obviously this can cover a lot of ground, but for starters, why not get a bit dominant with your woman.  This doesn’t mean getting disrespectful or speaking down to her, it’s simply an extension of when you earlier learned how to really kiss, by making a woman feel a bit helpless when you did so, but now you’re doing it in a bigger arena.  Often a woman loves being overpowered sexually, and this can involve dozens of different scenarios. 

Luckily, it will take some time to sort through them all!  Communicate and explore together, and a lot of fun discoveries will happen.  A Good Bad Boy will try not to be shocked by a woman’s behavior, in keeping with balance and stature, but how much fun it will be when a woman finally does take you aback.  Acknowledge it, but don’t be obvious about it!

Sunday, March 16, 2014

The Power of Persuasion

As a Good Bad Boy you will also develop the ability to be a coercive influence.  Once you take the time to make a woman feel special, safe and desired you can really explore.  Assuming you’re with a woman that has a pretty extensive naughty streak (why would you be anywhere else?) you can regularly make suggestions or take actions that push the boundaries of your intimate experiences further out.  You’ll have the dual satisfaction of exploring territory that you’ve not been to before, as well as taking the woman you’re with to new and exciting heights – assuming she’s not been there before! 
Even if she’s been where you haven’t, that’s fine, since women that are really experienced and have had a full spectrum of sexual experiences truly appreciate a Good Bad Boy.  They, more than most women, need to be with someone who is confident and really knows their way around, and isn’t afraid to go there. Women generally aren’t thrilled if they find they are more sexually experienced than the guy they are getting to know. Most women would rather not have to teach the guy, they want to be shown what skills you have – for them. 
So, as a fun example, the next romantic dinner that you’re out at with your new partner, assuming you’ve both felt things out a bit, whisper in her ear, in a gentle but firm way, that you want her to go to the ladies room and remove her panties, and that she should bring them back for you to hold, and she’ll have to make due without them for the rest of the evening.  If she comes back with a clever reply, such as “why would you assume that I’m even wearing any?”  make sure you keep your Good Bad Boy stature, and if she’s wearing a dress or a skirt, you challenge her right then and there to surreptitiously prove it to you, as actions are what count.  If she balks, you can be provocative and question the veracity of her statement.  If she’s wearing slacks, you will expect her to prove it later. 
Either way, you keep your balance.  It’s like volleying in tennis.  Naughtiness in public is a huge turn on for many women.  Don’t be afraid to explore it, but don’t be foolish or obvious either as it’s a fine balance.  Remember, there are many law enforcement personnel that will be less than amused by your activities if they catch you in the act.   Oh, and be sure to put this woman right at the top of the list of your involvements – any woman who thinks that way is someone you want to know a whole lot more!