Saturday, November 3, 2012

Be Polite - DAMMIT!

Being polite is very simple. The easiest way to be polite is to stop all that useless thinking that has been going on to this point, and pay attention. While many may groan at the notion of opening a door or offering any kind assistance to a woman, regardless of whether she needs it or not, the effort you make is what will gain you notice. Show that you are attentive. Yes, that means you have to pay attention. That also means you have to be aware of what's going on around you. In other words, stop running scenarios through your head or whatever other dopey activity is going on up there in regard to women and become present in the moment you are living - now! Forget all about what's happened before or what you're cooking up for what might be (it never works out that way anyway). Maybe we should play some poker for a moment.

With poker, you must play the cards you are dealt, unless you're a master at bluffing. In relating with women, bluffing is out of the question, you are learning to be a Good Bad Boy which entails being true to yourself and proud of it. Trying to make a pair of deuces sound like a Full House often comes up short in poker, and it always will be called in dating. If you get a great hand, be grateful and play it carefully. If you are dealt lousy cards, throw them in, there will be more cards soon.

And this relates to women, how? If you are polite, pay attention, LISTEN and make a connection with a lovely women, you've just been dealt three Aces. If you act like a gentleman yet there is still no chemistry, throw in the cards. Don't over think this, or anything else for that matter.

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