The male mind, when presented with any
possibility of fun, frolic or potential profit, is held at bay about as easily
as a thoroughbred chomping at the bit in the gate moments before the starting
bell. The faintest whiff of potential intimacy with a female and a fellow already has the whole scenario mapped out in his mind. Any male who tells you
he's never done this is a flat out liar, including myself.
While playing out a fantasy scenario in your mind might seem like fun while
you're doing it, you would well advised to keep that unlikely set of events
right there in your head. I'm willing to bet that the amount of fantasy
scenarios that you cooked up in your head that actually came true is probably
somewhere between slim and none. Additionally, not only is all that mental
energy wasted on something that likely will ever happen, you've probably not
considered the amount of potential and permanent damage you could do to every
encounter with the opposite sex.
This lousy tendency is better known as Projection. Consider
this to be in the top five habits to always avoid when interacting with women.
There's many reasons why this is, and following are a few examples.
Firstly, no one likes to feel they are being taken for granted. If you've
already mapped out how a woman is going to act around you sexually and the whys
and wherefores of all the aspects of your encounter, you've dismissed anything
she has to say or how she feels about anything. You don't even know this woman
yet, but that hasn't stopped you from flying down the road thinking what it all
will feel like when she's finally undressed. Good Bad Boys avoid this mindset
at all costs, and frankly resent it, since it gives all guys a bad name and
makes their goals that much harder to attain.
Additionally, it's a very selfish
and uninspired way to think, it's what a boy would do. Your goal here is to
become a confident MAN.
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