Saturday, June 8, 2013

Lose Your Ego

So, regardless of whether you’re picking her up, or meeting her there, you’ll now have an evening full of challenges, risks and potential rewards, and you’ll have to get the ball rolling by starting conversation. 

Again, the goal here is to learn about her, so asking her how her day went is always a good start.  Again, there is no fixed ‘script’ to get you through the evening;  you will have to earn your Good Bad Boy stripes through patience and practice.  However, there are some parameters you should follow, and at the very least, it will make the learning curve a little bit easier.

As stated earlier, one of the big goals is to feel more and think less, and during a first date evening you will be sorely tested to think as little as possible.  If you’re spending a lot of time during the evening thinking about something clever to say, you’re paying too much attention to what’s going on between your ears and not enough on the cute woman in front of you.  Big Mistake! 
What you need to realize is that your main goal is to make yourself as attractive as possible in these early stages, and while good appearance always counts, with most women it’s who you are that really attracts – or repels them. 

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