Sunday, March 31, 2013

Building Trust

The intent of all this careful listening and sharing of feelings is the gaining access to the most treasured possession of a woman--her Trust.  Gaining trust is about you having integrity, and that integrity is built on your words and your actions.  It is possible for you to bed a woman without her complete trust, if that is all you truly seek.  However, you will miss the real riches that women will offer, and more importantly, you will never be a Good Bad Boy. 

Without trust you will never gain a foothold in a woman’s heart, hence she will never adore you.  Sure, she may think you’re hot, but that’s what she thinks, not how she feels.  Good Bad Boys will never settle for just this, they know the value of being held precious in a woman’s heart and attaining a permanent place there that belongs only to them.  Building trust is the surest way to get there.

Here’s a thought to consider – Building trust is simple, but it is not easy.  Again, another paradox.  Building trust is simple--you need only be honest, open, communicative, kind and consistent.  However, when you add patience,  understanding you’ll have to do all this over an extended period of time, and then it becomes more challenging. 

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