Friday, March 29, 2013

Authentic Communication

Although this question is usually met by males with a head scratching response, there is a big incentive to respond to it in as honest and indisputable manner possible.  This is another Big Truth that you need to recognize, memorize and never, ever forget--One of the main desires of women is being with a man who can effectively share how he feels.  

Being students in the art of women, Good Bad Boys are well aware of how important it is to females that a man be willing and able to successfully communicate his feelings.  A man who is in touch with how he feels and then shares that with a woman will gain her heart much more quickly than if he doesn’t want to be bothered with communicating them. 

Try to remember to not give responses that tell her what you think, which is what most men will do.  I’m no different since I tend to say what I think, but when asked how I feel about something I try to take a long moment before responding and think of certain buzzwords--angry, happy, sad, lonely, irritated, depressed, contented, lost--emotional words, words that for most men might as well be in Latin.  I try to respond through whichever of those words come closest to how I’m feeling.  This is a crucial time to remember the Good Bad Boy mantra--Think Less and Feel More. 

You can say that you’re sad, elaborate a little on why, and not say much more than that.  There is no need to justify or defend your feelings, they are not right or wrong, they are simply your feelings and they are legitimate.  Women don’t have to have it explained to them, they already understand.  If you delve into another person’s feelings, be willing to have yours examined as well. Handle this, and you’ll have moved along nicely in your Good Bad Boy evolvement.

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