If, as Good Bad Boys do, you take the path that most other
men do not, you will recognize the value of getting a woman's
attention and understand the time and effort that will be involved in
obtaining it. Nothing of great value is easily obtained, and this is no
exception.
This is hardly a problem, since a key part of evolving as a Good Bad
Boy is the journey getting there, and what an enjoyable journey it will be! Do
not, as most men do, simply sexualize a woman when you first meet her, sizing
her up as a sexual partner, looking her over as if she's roast beef to be
purchased at the deli counter. This sounds harsh, but I'm sure there are
thousands of woman out there that would be nodding their heads in remembrance
of experiencing that particular unpleasantness.
Many men have the potential for great sexual confidence, which will spill out
to greater confidence in many other aspects of their lives. Women find
confidence in a man attractive, and they find a man that has confidence when it
comes to women extremely attractive. However,
they are flummoxed as to how to access it.
If you cannot bridge these two
areas, you will always be a nice guy in her mind, someone to rely on, a guy
friend she can confide in, and a good friend. These are death scenarios for a
Good Bad Boy. The last thing you want is a wonderful, beautiful woman that
you're dying to connect with think of you in the same manner as her
girlfriends. She will never surrender her heart, mind and body to you. That she
will only do to someone who knows how and when to be a Bad Boy, yet be a good
man who knows how to make her feel safe.
Of course you're now wondering 'How does one make a woman feel safe'? Well,
that may take some time......
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