Your 'Stuff' Doesn't Matter Here......

If you need to boast about your job, possessions, boats, houses, bank account or other items of money, property or prestige, you’re only kidding yourself if you think this is the essence of confidence.  You are deluded if you think all this stuff makes you more attractive to women with substance.  Not only will they be unimpressed, they will view you as someone who is pathetic.  One great example of this was the story of a man who was vertically challenged trying to impress a woman I’ve known for many years, trying to get her to go out on a date with him:

One of his opening lines was, “You know, I’m someone who has a lot of money.”

She feigned being impressed for a moment, and then said, “Really?  Wow.  So how tall are you when you stand on your wallet?”

He slinked away completely emasculated.