Get Real

What also will aid you in maintaining a balance is to purge your consciousness of previous notions of women in general.  You’re probably like many men and see a new woman you may potentially date as a replication of some cover girl from the latest flashy magazine or website trying to fire up your testosterone.  Not only that, she must be sharp minded.  It’s probably not occurred to you that if this is the standard you hold women to, she’s got a better mind than you do.  The bottom line is if she’s cute, sexy, and reasonably bright and thinks you’ve got something going on that works for her, you’re miles ahead of the unrealistic dreamers that are going home from the clubs inebriated to cuddle and drool onto their pillows--alone.