Up to this point, you’ve only been lobbing back
verbal volleys in regard to her particular dilemma du jour. There are
two types of questions you can now ask, each from different sides of the brain.
You can ask nuts and bolts questions, like ‘Why didn’t your boss speak to you
about the reorganization?’ or other male-type questions that essentially ask
‘What do you think about that?’ The other more provocative and
difficult, yet ultimately rewarding choice is to ask her ‘How does that make
you feel?’
This line of questioning and thinking is much more in the realm of the female,
so likely you will get a protracted response. Stay focused, keep listening and
offer supportive rejoinders here and there, but don’t overdo it. Remember, a
woman often times simply wants to know you’re listening and that you care. If
she wants you to solve the problem for her, she will ask you directly to do it.
Besides, we've already arrested that bothersome male trait a few posts
back.....right?
Since asking a woman how she feels can be a bit of a roller coaster ride for a
lot of guys, its important to step back for a moment and remember the bigger
picture. You’re trying to become a Good Bad Boy, and they always listen
attentively to a woman, because they will learn more about her, and in doing
so, will know how to proceed with her.
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