If a woman is confiding to
you about herself and the things in her life and that all too familiar male
urge to give your opinion or try to ‘fix’ the situation starts to come over
you, do everything within your power to stifle it. Bite your tongue, smile
politely, think about baseball, nod your head, excuse yourself to the bathroom
so you can regain composure and remind yourself not to think.
Do anything and
everything you can to kill that impulse. If you lose this tendency, you will
automatically become much more attractive to women. You’re acknowledging their
words and thoughts and giving them weight and consideration.
Women have to live in a man’s world, so you can do your part here. Really
listening to a woman, and not offering your unsolicited advice, is something
they’re not used to from most men, so it will set you apart, and make you more
special to them.
Now that you're listening more, it's time to work on your communication
skills....
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