Becoming A Good Bad Boy

Now, if the two of you have decided to keep things more on the physical plane and are going straight off to bed, you can check in later in the week, since we're addressing holding off sex for the moment. 

Firstly, give yourself credit for taking an evolved route in honoring how you feel inside.  Also, realize that by valuing feelings over sexual relations with your date, you have most likely made a very great and favorable impression with her.  She likely will want to see you again as soon as possible, but there is no rush, all the sexual activities will take care of themselves.  You are now in a very detached, but powerful place of knowing you’ve done everything the Good Bad Boy way, and that you can now enjoy the anticipation of the next encounter with her.  Have fun, but do take it in and learn from your actions, as they are the actions of a man in touch with his feelings, not a boy reacting to what his hormones are screaming at him, and that will always be viewed in a very positive light by the kind of women you want to spend a lot of time with. 

So, we’ll fast forward a bit, if you’ve held off, you now are down the road, have had another date or two (which you are much more skilled at by now) and you have reached the point again where there is a lot of heavy breathing, furious, passionate kissing and clothes starting to go the way of the four winds. 

As before, do not take anything for granted and do not assume that just because you held off before that the both of you will automatically tumble into bed.  Again, Good Bad Boys are skilled at having a woman reach the point that they want to have them, so keep gently, but respectfully, pushing the envelope.  Be more sexual in subtle degrees, unbutton her top, gently push her legs further apart and reach higher onto her thighs – just keep gently upping the ante. 

Again, no obvious touching, save that for when you’re both naked, which should be very soon.  The suggestion of it all right now is much more powerful than doing it, having her thinking about sex with you is the most powerful aphrodisiac there is.  At some point you both will be ready to explode, and it will be time to head to the bedroom (or whatever room you choose) and take your interactions to a significantly higher level. 

When you’re ready to cross that sexual threshold, just look at her, and say something fun and naughty in a Good Bad Boy way.  Something along the lines of ‘are you ready to show me what a naughty girl you are?’ will suffice, and then take her by the hand and lead her off to the bedroom. 

Or, she just as easily may not wait for you and lead you off on her own, lucky fellow.