Working Towards The Zone

Since you’re off to a good start, make sure you keep on track by staying out of your head, and drop all the agendas you may have.  Spend time genuinely getting to know this woman.  An easy question in any major city, since there are so many transplants, is the ‘are you from the area, or did you move here’ query, and from that you can ask all manner of questions showing your interest,  from ‘what was it like here as a kid’ to ‘what was it like growing up in ___________?’ 

Hopefully you’re starting to get the idea.  After a short while you’ll be less conscious of what you’re trying to say and actually be in the flow of the conversation, which is the natural rhythm a Good Bad Boy will seek.  Conversation should flow, with interest, and sometimes each of you unintentionally interrupting the other, not out of rudeness, but more in the excitement of the moment.  Be polite, kind, genuine, smile often, flirt with your eyes, and engage on many levels. 

Most of all, have fun with all this, it’s important, but not a matter of life or death.  If after a while you realize you’ve been bantering back and forth and a lot of time has slipped by without you realizing it, you’ve now stepped into the Seduction Zone.