If you have even a modicum of sexual evolvement, you already know how
much of a turn off it is to hear guys spew forth about their sexual exploits,
or worse, their caveman opinion on women in general. And, it should go without
saying that you should never – under any circumstances – boast about
your past sexual experiences to a woman, unless of course never having sex with
her is your goal.
Even if she asks you about it, assume a self-effacing
attitude and politely side step any mention of your experiences, turning it
back in a charming and playful manner by saying something like “Women didn't
exist for me until I met you ” and leave it at that. If you’re a skilled lover,
she already knows you’ve been around the block a number of times. Her imagining
that you’ve been with a lot of women will potentially turn her on, thinking
you’re a lovely, naughty Bad Boy, and now she’s captured your attentions. This
will give her an important feeling of accomplishment, that's she's unique. You telling
her you’ve been with a bunch of other girls will completely kill the illusion
she’s created in her mind, make her feel diminished and unexceptional, as well
as taking away her fantasy guy. Now you’re just another player who has
completely turned her off. Learn this subtle but important distinction
NOW!
Yes, another item on a long list of female mysteries. Remember, we’re in an
exotic, exciting, but confusing foreign place now, and although subtlety is not
a strong suit for most men, it is a highly prized commodity in the realm of
women. The information in her mind is important, but it’s how it gets delivered
there matters more. She wants to feel that’s she’s number one with you –
whether you’re dating only her or five others – and you better do that if you
want to spend time with this woman. Be a good poker player and don’t show your
cards. Just a subtle hint here and there keeps the fire burning quite nicely.
Maybe learning to Listen will help...
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